Strategy: Change your thoughts

  • Using different thoughts is not the only way to change thoughts.
  • Sometimes it is necessary to think about things that negatively affect our mood, but it is important not to do this too often.
  • In this regard, you can decide to limit the time spent on these thoughts to five or ten minutes a day. Try to do this when you are not with your baby.
  • When we are sad, we feel that the situation is very painful and that it will remain so forever.
  • One way to change this thinking is to shift the focus on the future.
  • Take a moment to think about the near future, when things will be better. Visualize the future.
  • Changing unhelpful thoughts may be new to you.
  • When you are doing something new, it can be helpful to talk to yourself.
  • If you admit to having an unhelpful thought, name it out loud or write it down somewhere. “I just thought that I will be sick throughout my pregnancy; this is an unhelpful thought.”